I remember when the reality of my childhood started to hit me over the head. I was sitting in a somatic psychotherapy training with Ron Kurtz listening to others speak about how their childhood …
Unplug from Porn
Unplug from porn by unplugging from what drives porn. Many men find their way to work to one of our groups or trainings and often to my coaching because of their history of porn. Because it’s so …
It’s Not You, It’s Our Paradigm That’s Old
This post I wrote first appeared About Me. Reconsidering Manhood Trying to be a 20-year-old doesn’t work at 60. Getting women to help us with our emotions – like we did when we were younger, …
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Penetrating the Veils to Great Sex
I remember, as a young teenager, hanging out with my friends and talking about what we would do with a particular young teenage girl. We had no idea what we were talking about, but that was …
We Are Killing Our Boys
It’s hard to be a boy these days. A boy today goes to schools run mostly by women, who are under intense pressure to get test scores up. His recess is reduced or taken away because there is so much to …
How Men Grieve Differently than Women
This is a guest post form Thomas Golden. A man's emotional pain is often invisible. You simply can't see it. Most people assume that since it is not easy to spot that it must not exist. Worse …
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