For more posts, visit my blog on meld.community
You’ve met the love of your life. You fall in love, sex is great, you seem meant for each other. Time passes, and eventually, what felt like endless passion begins to feel like a trap. Your commitments become your sentence. Rather than looking forward to time together, you find yourself avoiding spending time together. Are…
This post I wrote first appeared About Me. Reconsidering Manhood Trying to be a 20-year-old doesn’t work at 60. Getting women to help us with our emotions – like we did when we were younger, starting with our mother – is no longer an option. And our friends? Well, they’re no better off than we…
Relationships don’t need to be hard. It’s not therapy, it’s not reading a new book or taking the latest course out on relationships. It’s joining a micro. We have a primordial need to have a tribe. With a men’s group or women’s groups – your mico-community, you have a resource that nourishes you so…
This is a guest post by Pelle Billing – he challenges us to look at male identity. The statistics are becoming increasingly well known. Men earn a lower percentage of college degrees than women. Male unemployment is reaching alarming heights. Fewer and fewer men get married (in the US and the UK alike); seemingly more interested in video games, beer and hanging…
What is the definition of hell? Working with your spouse when it’s not working. Tom came to me many years go stressed out, burnt out and thrown out. After what seemed to be a great marriage and growing business Tom was looking at divorce and dissolving their business. His wife Ann had more or less…
What guy doesn’t want to get more attention, affection or sex? Can you remember when the lust between the two of you could burn down the room? Just one word or look and you’d be tearing off each others’ clothes. Then one day you realize those experiences are distant memories. You still love her. You…
