I grew up telling myself that my feelings were not important -- that no one cared how I felt. Taught that even thinking a bad thought was a sin, I believed that my hell was my fault. If it was going …
Seek Discomfort
What do we love? Control. When I get honest about my former obsession with control, my approach to life was “How can I minimize my risk?”. Sure, that can be a good survival strategy; it sucks as …
Projection — How to Transform Them
Twenty-five years ago, getting pissed off sitting in a Sweat Lodge next to a man who could not sit still, I thought, “WTF, can’t this man just relax?”. It took everything I had not to say something – …
Cooks vs Chefs
When I began learning Rolfing, I wanted someone to give me THE set of techniques that would produce the change I experienced when I was Rolfed. Quickly I realized with Dr. Rolf’s perspective that I …
Discovering Your Desires
Luke Burgis speaks about how so much of what we want is not what we want. He dove into how we are trained to want what others want on an interview we did with him for an EVRYMAN Global Call. His new …
The Body Doesn’t Lie
Have you ever done something you said you would never do to have it change your life? For me, it was 1976, living with a group of guys in Boulder, CO. Breck, one of my roommates, moved to Boulder …