What do we love? Control. When I get honest about my former obsession with control, my approach to life was “How can I minimize my risk?”. Sure, that can be a good survival strategy; it sucks as …
Projection — How to Transform Them
Twenty-five years ago, getting pissed off sitting in a Sweat Lodge next to a man who could not sit still, I thought, “WTF, can’t this man just relax?”. It took everything I had not to say something – …
Cooks vs Chefs
When I began learning Rolfing, I wanted someone to give me THE set of techniques that would produce the change I experienced when I was Rolfed. Quickly I realized with Dr. Rolf’s perspective that I …
Discovering Your Desires
Luke Burgis speaks about how so much of what we want is not what we want. He dove into how we are trained to want what others want on an interview we did with him for an EVRYMAN Global Call. His new …
The Body Doesn’t Lie
Have you ever done something you said you would never do to have it change your life? For me, it was 1976, living with a group of guys in Boulder, CO. Breck, one of my roommates, moved to Boulder …
Unplug from Porn
Unplug from porn by unplugging from what drives porn. Many men find their way to work to one of our groups or trainings and often to my coaching because of their history of porn. Because it’s so …