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the fire in our belly
I remember moving to Boulder, Colorado, in 1976 with no money, friends, or work. After living in a youth hostel with snoring men and working in a laundry, I got a job at a construction company. Within a few months, as a foreman leading the crew, I arrived before anyone else in the morning and…
Luke Burgis speaks about how so much of what we want is not what we want. He dove into how we are trained to want what others want on an interview we did with him for an EVRYMAN Global Call. His new book, Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life, helps unpack your conditioning…
Today, on May 4th, 2011 I am the featured Inspirational Luminary on InspireMeToday.com writing about: Unreasonable action leads to being remarkable. What one rule have you always wanted to break? I’m not talking about laws, or morality. I don’t mean robbing a bank or cheating on your spouse. What is that thing that you wanted…
Want to attract women? Or have a more fulfilling relationship with your partner? Women want a mature man who knows who he is. We all know that – so how do we achieve it? If you‘re like me, you did what your buddies told you to do. We all know how well that worked. Here’s…
Men don’t listen. It’s a horrible stereotype—but as far as most women are concerned, it’s an irrefutable fact. Why don’t we just listen? Why do we always try to fix everything? Because, as men, we are instinctually wired and acculturated to provide for and protect our partners through helping, fixing and directing. When a man’s…
Truth will set you free, and it might get you laid. Women are amazing at spotting our BS. I’m not just talking about the half-truths we tell in attempt to slip out of being a man; I’m speaking about how we seduce a woman. A canned compliment is less likely to get you what you…
