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Women teach us a great deal. For most men, they teach us how to be emotional and how to relate to them. That’s a lot. But women can’t teach us Masculine Emotional Intelligence, just as we can’t teach them Feminine Emotional Intelligence. They also can’t teach the masculine perspective to relating to a woman. They…
Chris Luna from NYC and host of the Craft of Charisma Podcast asks how to use the qualities of Emotional Masculine Intelligence (MEI). I give men ways to raise their MEI so they start winning more. It actually can be easy if you are doing what works. So often our problem as men is what…
What is possible in your life? Are you developing the relationships you want with your partner and with other male friends? Here is an interview (see below) about our work with men, our free groups, and our Free to Win programs. I speak about why men come to us, and what they and their partners…
To use my friend Ken Solin’s line, “Who do you call at 2AM when your life just exploded?” If you are like most men, your list is very short, or nonexistent. Most men left our brotherhood behind us when we left school or the military. Even the institutional brotherhoods are slowly dying. How many men…
Over the years, we’ve had many men join our groups at the suggestion of their therapist. That’s right: a therapist suggested their patient check out a men’s group rather than enter therapy. That’s because more and more therapists are realizing men aren’t bad or broken. Being a man is not a pathological problem. Men don’t…
Guys, if you want to attract more women, increase your Masculine Emotional Intelligence™ (MEI). Get smart. Women like smart men. They love men who are emotionally smart in a masculine way. A man blows up at a woman over his tools being out of place = childish and unsexy. A man says, “Can you please…
