Twenty-five years ago, getting pissed off sitting in a Sweat Lodge next to a man who could not sit still, I thought, “WTF, can’t this man just relax?”. It took everything I had not to say something – …
How to Win Your Battles
As a kid, I fought. I fought my parents, teachers and friends. I pushed against whatever felt restrictive. I often lost, but that didn’t stop me from opposing what I felt was unfair. As a teenager, I …
How a Man Change His Relationship by Changing Himself
After a recent men’s group meeting, I woke up the next morning realizing I hadn’t spoken about a phenomenon that I saw ready to occur for a man: Inevitably, as we do our work, our relationships …
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Men, You CAN Fight The Good Fight In Your Relationship
It’s not if, it’s when and how you will fight. Every relationship has conflicts. How you move through them can determine the joy in your relationship. And accepting that fights happen frees you to …
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Why Men Don’t Listen
Men don’t listen. It’s a horrible stereotype—but as far as most women are concerned, it’s an irrefutable fact. Why don’t we just listen? Why do we always try to fix everything? Because, as men, we …
What Drama Takes You Out? – Part 2, the Persecutor
Persecutor Every victim needs a persecutor. In the Drama Triangle, the bully is in this role and is the one who blames the victim, criticizes him or her and enables the behavior of the rescuer, who …
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