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You had a plan to be in a great relationship, with a fulfilling career, and maybe a family of your own. . Where are you with that plan? Maybe your relationship is heading in the direction of previous relationships. Maybe you just don’t have one. Your work is just that – work. The plan of…
Chris Luna from NYC and host of the Craft of Charisma Podcast asks how to use the qualities of Emotional Masculine Intelligence (MEI). I give men ways to raise their MEI so they start winning more. It actually can be easy if you are doing what works. So often our problem as men is what…
Here’s an interview Katie McCarthy did with me on her podcast Give Good. Katie asks many of the questions I get from women about men’s groups. I go on to explain what a men’s group does for men. Katie explains how women have sisterhood, but how men rarely have a brotherhood. I speak about one…
“Feeling emotions” is not an oxymoron for men. Men generally feel and express emotions differently than women do. Women have always had to step up to fill in for all the times men were away from the family working, fighting, traveling – and they did a great job. But we’ve lost the masculine perspective on…
After a recent men’s group meeting, I woke up the next morning realizing I hadn’t spoken about a phenomenon that I saw ready to occur for a man: Inevitably, as we do our work, our relationships change. As our relationships change, our partners change. Many years ago Chip, one of the best psychotherapists I’ve ever…
It’s not if, it’s when and how you will fight. Every relationship has conflicts. How you move through them can determine the joy in your relationship. And accepting that fights happen frees you to learn and heal from them. While working on our conflicts, we get to complete incomplete experiences from our childhood. You need…
