Many years ago, we are talking decades; I had a teacher explain metaphors to me. This teacher used the difference between the War for Independence, which I was interested in, and the Civil War, …
The Body Doesn’t Lie
Have you ever done something you said you would never do to have it change your life? For me, it was 1976, living with a group of guys in Boulder, CO. Breck, one of my roommates, moved to Boulder …
Unplug from Porn
Unplug from porn by unplugging from what drives porn. Many men find their way to work to one of our groups or trainings and often to my coaching because of their history of porn. Because it’s so …
What Does Brad Pitt Know About Men That Others Don’t?
Post: Brad Pitt and Men's Groups We are told that men are emotionally closed down. That they cannot feel or express emotions. As a man who has experienced pain and witnessed thousands of other men …
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How We Learn
We are taught that learning comes from the act of being taught. We are trained to learn to sit in a chair that is in a row of chairs, writing down what the teacher tells us. Be dyslexic; I was not …
What Others Think of Us
How well does denial work for you? It didn’t for me. Growing up with a speech impediment along with dyslexia and Asperger’s Syndrome, school was a struggle. I tried to convince myself that …