We all want change -- but we want to be in control of it. So how do you control change in a way that works? You initiate it. If you aren’t changing, change will find you and start changing you. If …
The Secret to a Powerful Men’s Group
I’m often asked, what is a good men’s group? My standard answer is that it’s not therapy, its men learning what we didn’t get to learn growing up. All that is true, but it doesn’t explain what occurs …
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Men Don’t Do Therapy
Over the years, we’ve had many men join our groups at the suggestion of their therapist. That’s right: a therapist suggested their patient check out a men’s group rather than enter therapy. That’s …
Bad Boy 2.0 – transforming the bad into good – Part 4
Now that we investigated the upside and downside of Bad Boys for men and women, let’s extract what works from this model of the masculine that fulfills what both men and women need. I’ve written how …
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Women and Bad Boys – What Do Women Get – Part 3
This is third part of a four-part article exploring the traps and the power of Bad Boys for both men and women. From working with women and having them as friends and partners, I’ve learned that they …
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What Good Men Can Learn from Bad Boys – part 2
This is second part of a four-part article exploring the traps and the power of Bad Boys for both men and women. What’s in a Bad Boy – the upside of being bad A Bad Boy’s outward struggle with men …
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