Many years ago, we are talking decades; I had a teacher explain metaphors to me. This teacher used the difference between the War for Independence, which I was interested in, and the Civil War, …
What Does Brad Pitt Know About Men That Others Don’t?
Post: Brad Pitt and Men's Groups We are told that men are emotionally closed down. That they cannot feel or express emotions. As a man who has experienced pain and witnessed thousands of other men …
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If You Don’t Ask for Help, You Don’t Make It*
What’s more likely to kill you—a bad diet or no friends? As much as your diet determines your health, the close connections in a man’s life can be a better determiner of longevity. To be a man is to …
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The Secret of Men’s Groups
As men, we resist anything that has to do with emotions and deep connections, yet when we experience the power of a good men’s group, we wonder why we didn’t join one sooner. Being a lone wolf is not …
Are You Being Taken Out by this Relationship Saboteur?
I once had a client who struggled in every relationship he had. Falling in love was easy -- maybe too easy. John would open himself up to his new love, he would give her everything she wanted, but …
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The Power of Men’s Groups
We are changing the model of what it means to be a man. In this 30-minute interview with Ken Casler, I discuss how men’s groups give men what they never had. I speak about the distinction between …