Twenty-five years ago, getting pissed off sitting in a Sweat Lodge next to a man who could not sit still, I thought, “WTF, can’t this man just relax?”. It took everything I had not to say something – …
How Allowing Yourself to Feel Another’s Experience Will Change You
In the mid-1990s, my business Paul and I were building the Scottsdale Institute for Health and Medicine in Arizona. John Rattenbury, the lead teacher at Taliesin West, Frank Lloyd Wright’s school in …
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How Metaphors Can Change You
Many years ago, we are talking decades; I had a teacher explain metaphors to me. This teacher used the difference between the War for Independence, which I was interested in, and the Civil War, …
Short Cut to Change
We all want change -- but we want to be in control of it. So how do you control change in a way that works? You initiate it. If you aren’t changing, change will find you and start changing you. If …
The Power of Uncertainty
Accessing your full power lies in utilizing what you avoid. This power lies behind the stress and trauma. Your stress and trauma freezes you, preventing you from being that man you want to …
What Men Birth
I recently had a conversation with Marianne Else on Facebook about what men birth. She pointed out that, “the incubation period [for men] sometimes is measured in years and years.... the man is more …