Stuck Jim is a software engineer at a tech company. He is married to Annie. He works hard in a high-stress job, his boss often drilling him about products and performance. At home, Annie …
The Cost of Disconnection
Looking out my windows covered with bars, I wondered what brought me to feel locked up. I stood there in pain, at the beginning of a long journey of discovering how to connect to myself and others. …
If You Don’t Ask for Help, You Don’t Make It*
What’s more likely to kill you—a bad diet or no friends? As much as your diet determines your health, the close connections in a man’s life can be a better determiner of longevity. To be a man is to …
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The Secret of Men’s Groups
As men, we resist anything that has to do with emotions and deep connections, yet when we experience the power of a good men’s group, we wonder why we didn’t join one sooner. Being a lone wolf is not …
Are You Being Taken Out by this Relationship Saboteur?
I once had a client who struggled in every relationship he had. Falling in love was easy -- maybe too easy. John would open himself up to his new love, he would give her everything she wanted, but …
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How to Get What You Want
What is a man? Do you know? You probably have an idea. Odds are, you’re either a man yourself, and/or you date one, live with one, or are married to one. We might know what we expect of a …