Stuck Jim is a software engineer at a tech company. He is married to Annie. He works hard in a high-stress job, his boss often drilling him about products and performance. At home, Annie …
Are You Being Taken Out by this Relationship Saboteur?
I once had a client who struggled in every relationship he had. Falling in love was easy -- maybe too easy. John would open himself up to his new love, he would give her everything she wanted, but …
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We All Are in Arranged Marriages
You’ve met the love of your life. You fall in love, sex is great, you seem meant for each other. Time passes, and eventually, what felt like endless passion begins to feel like a trap. Your …
The Five Paths to the Life You Want
Growing up, I tried to get what I wanted by attempting to develop an effective persona. Eventually, I gave up. I figured I couldn’t make any more of a fool of myself if I just allowed myself to be …
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Don’t Leave the Relationship – Leave the Model
While living in Phoenix many years ago, I sat on my couch one evening with Pam, the woman I was dating. I was trying to answer her request to feel my emotions and explain my thoughts. Pam kept saying …
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Secrets Men Teach Other Men about Women – a new resource
Women teach us a great deal. For most men, they teach us how to be emotional and how to relate to them. That’s a lot. But women can’t teach us Masculine Emotional Intelligence, just as we can’t teach …
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