We love a woman’s beauty – all her beauty. Guys we think once we said it a few times, she’s gotten it, and we can move on. I can tell you, I learned the hard way, it’s not that way. Even though WE know and feel she’s beautiful, some part of her needs to hear it again. At least every once in a while.
My recommendation: connect to the place in you that you feel her beauty. Then speak to her from that place. It only needs to a short sentence. If her intellect wows you, say, “There is nothing more beautiful than a brilliant woman.” If she looks beautiful to you covered in sawdust and paint as you’re remodeling, tell her, “You know what’s sexy? A woman who can wield a paint roller.” There is nothing else that takes so little effort and that will produce such returns.
Here is a short video to this point by Alison Armstrong an expert about men and women correcting Jack Canfield around women.
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