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You want better sex? Of course, you do. After trying the latest and greatest techniques, you discover that some techniques just don’t cut it. How do you fix this? Listen to your partner, who is an expert in what she or he wants you to learn! You need to slow down and be more sensitive….
I once had a client who struggled in every relationship he had. Falling in love was easy — maybe too easy. John would open himself up to his new love, he would give her everything she wanted, but inevitably the romance would wear off, and the deeper relationships issues would show up. John would start…
You’ve met the love of your life. You fall in love, sex is great, you seem meant for each other. Time passes, and eventually, what felt like endless passion begins to feel like a trap. Your commitments become your sentence. Rather than looking forward to time together, you find yourself avoiding spending time together. Are…
What is the worst act you’ve ever committed in a relationship…or what was the worst one perpetrated upon you? I suspect it was infidelity. Infidelity is a knife to the heart of the relationship. There is not a more powerful way to tear apart a relationship than for one of the partners to have an affair….
Let’s get honest, we all are shy— some of us just know how to hide it, or how to move beyond it. Our shyness is part of our unique sensitivity to life. But as we travel through childhood, then manhood, we are trained to suppress our sensitivity. I know for myself, I did everything I…
Women teach us a great deal. For most men, they teach us how to be emotional and how to relate to them. That’s a lot. But women can’t teach us Masculine Emotional Intelligence, just as we can’t teach them Feminine Emotional Intelligence. They also can’t teach the masculine perspective to relating to a woman. They…
