Our male ancestors wrote the rules around work. As men we are more likely to be the enforcers of those rules. What we are coming to realize is that we are also possibly the biggest victims of these …
When Happiness Doesn’t Pay
Does being happy piss you off? It can for me. I often feel all the talk about needing to be happy is BS. And those smiley faces…don’t get me started. Now I know I’m not the only one feeling this …
Where Have the Good Men Gone?
If you read the Wall Street Journal article by Kay S. Hymowitz, the author of the new book Manning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men Into Boys you would think that the younger generation of men …
Why Men Don’t Listen
Men don’t listen. It’s a horrible stereotype—but as far as most women are concerned, it’s an irrefutable fact. Why don’t we just listen? Why do we always try to fix everything? Because, as men, we …
What Gets You More – Comfort or Risk?
So, which gets you more, comfort or risk? I say risk. Comfort is what we seek, but it’s risk that delivers it. Think about it, what brought you the biggest change and pleasure in your life? Was it …
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What Is a Remarkable Man – a Lecture
For men and women in the Inland Northwest I am doing a talk at the Sandpoint Library: Guess what? Men are no longer just macho idiots or new age wimps. For thousands of years, society has taught men …
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