I am sure you do. Who wouldn’t? So how do you create a better relationship? First, you have to know what a better relationship is. How do you define it? So right now, list five qualities of a really good relationship – don’t think, list. Honestly, which ones do you really have? Does your relationship [...]

Let’s get honest: who do you go to for emotional support? If you go to anyone at all, there’s a good chance it’s your partner, assuming you have one. Your partner should be your best supporter… but should she be your only one? How often do your reveal personal issues to others, or ask for [...]

I am writing a book on the few questions that can set you free. For example, one question I ask men is, “Where are you incomplete?” If you haven’t kept an agreement with someone or yourself you risk losing energy from that incompletion. You may keep thinking about that thing you need to do. You [...]

Is this a good time to be a man? Some would say no. With new work demands, and new family demands, men feel pulled in so many different directions. With these changes in men’s roles, there is the subtler change in how men are evolving internally. This inner evolution is a reflection of the transformation [...]

This Huffington Post article about why young man are afraid to marry speaks about how men want to avoid the financial risks of divorce. The issue is not so much marriage or divorce – it is communication. In spite of all our technology and our communicat­ion skills we aren’t hearing each other. This is made [...]

…older men need to provide a better model for younger men. What happened to the good old days when men ruled? When being a man was the thing? Obviously, those days are not coming back. Good thing, too. No man I know would really want to go back to the days of women feeling repressed. [...]

I fully agree, “men — not just women — want to be both nurturers and breadwinne­rs.” We are getting back to before the plow was invented and the man left co-parenti­ng to plow the fields. In spite of or maybe because of all the economic turmoil men are getting an opportunit­y to expand their roles [...]

Shows such as Mad Man, PanAm and The Playboy Club are teaching new generations about the rigid gender roles of the 1960s. It’s reminding those of us old enough to remember the Bad Old Days how grateful we should be that things have changed. We know what we don’t want: rigidly prescribed roles in society [...]