Don’t Fix Me!
How many times as a man have you heard those words? What is it, we just want to fix? It’s Not About the Nail from Jason Headley on Vimeo.
Short Cut to Change
We all want change — but we want to be in control of it. So how do you control change in a way that works? You initiate it. If you aren’t changing, change will find you and start changing you. If you aren’t changing your body and health for the better, the change of aging…
The Secret to a Powerful Men’s Group
I’m often asked, what is a good men’s group? My standard answer is that it’s not therapy, its men learning what we didn’t get to learn growing up. All that is true, but it doesn’t explain what occurs during the meetings. Nor does it explain how, in six months, a man’s life can be…
Men Don’t Do Therapy
Over the years, we’ve had many men join our groups at the suggestion of their therapist. That’s right: a therapist suggested their patient check out a men’s group rather than enter therapy. That’s because more and more therapists are realizing men aren’t bad or broken. Being a man is not a pathological problem. Men don’t…
Bad Boy 2.0 – transforming the bad into good – Part 4
Now that we investigated the upside and downside of Bad Boys for men and women, let’s extract what works from this model of the masculine that fulfills what both men and women need. I’ve written how Manhood 2.0 is the evolving model of what it is to be a man today. This new man has…