Using the weapons of mass destruction… for loveAs you master the natural communication modalities, you can also use all the ones we have available to overload her with pleasure and desire.
- Texting – it’s not just for politicians or professional athletes to use in crude ways. Start an ongoing tease through your texting. Do be obvious. Focus on the indirect comments or the metaphors. Think of it more as short lines of an ongoing poem.
Send her a text when she least expects it. When you are next to her, when you’re dropping the kids off at practice, before you go to bed… you get it. Be creative.
As you do it more, you will get better at it and enjoy even more. This one action can transform your relationship.
- Post a public note to her on Facebook or Twitter. When a man publicly declares his love for his woman, and her friends see it, it’s like she “won that round.” Even women who don’t want to be will admit that they’re a little competitive about who has the best man. (Again, it’s biological. Women competed for the best providers.) Just like sending flowers to her AT WORK is a huge aphrodisiac for a women, so is a public declaration of how much you love or appreciate her. (NOTE: This is NOT the place to get racy or suggestive. Just loving and appreciative.)
- Leave notes – when and where she doesn’t expect it. Put one in her purse, in her underwear drawer; in the glove compartment of her car… again, have fun with it.
- Send her a letter – to her work or even to your address.
- Phone sex – is an art that develops out of mastering using the power of hypnotic induction. As with these other behaviors, start slow, be indirect and metaphorical. Use a preexisting story (situation) or invent one as you go.
- Be with her – by bringing all this together. One of the biggest turn-ons that we stop doing is being together. In all the ways you can, be present with her. Listen to her stories and feelings. Feel for what’s underneath what she’s saying, and ask questions from that place.