Stop pushing harder. Start using the right tool.
Over the years, I’ve had too many men come to me frustrated, confused, or even ashamed.
They’ve been doing “the work”—they’ve shown up to men’s groups, tried to be vulnerable, and put in the effort. But despite all that, something still isn’t clicking. The change they want isn’t happening. Their relationships aren’t improving. They’re not feeling more free or alive. And worst of all, they start to believe they are the problem.
Let me say this clearly:
It’s not you. It’s the model.
Most men’s work was built on a borrowed framework—pep talks, performance psychology, warrior archetypes. Useful ideas, but often missing the depth, the science, and the structure needed to create real, lasting change in men’s lives.
After 20 years of leading the Sandpoint Men’s Group (SMG)—and decades before that in somatic therapy clinics—I realized that it wasn’t about men trying harder. It was about giving them a better vehicle.
That’s what led to the creation of Functional Men’s Work—a method refined over two decades, grounded in emotional physiology, somatics, and communal practice.
I took what I learned from working with the founders of modern body-based psychotherapy, and I applied it to men’s groups. We tested it. We refined it. And now, it’s a model that delivers. Not just camaraderie, but transformation.
If your current men’s work feels like a treadmill—lots of effort, little progress—maybe it’s time for something different.
Functional Men’s Work is designed to give you:
- A deeper understanding of what’s really driving your behaviors
- Tools rooted in biology, not just ideology
- A community that reflects you, not just cheers you on
- And a method that turns insight into actual change—day by day, breath by breath
We built this model because we needed it.
Now, we offer it to men like you who are ready to get more out of the time and energy they invest.
? Learn how we evolved the model of Functional Men’s Work
If you’ve outgrown your current model, you’re not lost. You’re ready.
