A proven method in guiding a man to achieving his goals
coaching for deep change
You come home as you have hundreds of time, but this time it hits you: You have a home, a job, and friends. Your basic needs are handled. You are surviving… so what’s wrong?
Your life is not the way you planned it.
The joy, passion, and hope eroded. Left with the shell of a life, empty of the substance that gives it meaning you feel stuck. You recall the forgotten dreams you had, the ones you shared with your old friends. The dreams of what your life would become.
At the end of the day, do you feel alone?
You are not broken. It is not written in stone.
You have reached a plateau. Everything you learned and did brought you to this place… you made it. Now it’s time to make something else, something that serves a deeper part of you.
You’re smart; you know if you want a different outcome, you and your actions need to change. Not knowing how to make this shift is not your fault. You were not given the skills to create that remarkable life. Yet.
How to find and live your purpose with passion, how to create that relationship with your dream partner, and how to contribute your unique gifts is much easier when you have experienced guidance. When you have another man watching your back as he supports you in crafting what you want, life goes from constant struggle to excited anticipation.
Sure, you still have your bad days, yet when you possess a deep connection to YOUR purpose and passion, you are not alone. You also have the skills to get out of a hole – the skills to create what you REALLY want.
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There is some comfort in acceptance of your fate. You could surrender to whatever happens. The immediate anxiety of creating change might lessen. Yet, you know some day you will wake up and feel more angst for wasting more time.
You may fail.
However, you took action. Some part of you knows that even if the action you took wasn’t the perfect step to take, it got you off your ass. The next action is easier…
Go beyond the quick fix of:
> The intellectual understanding on why your life isn’t what you want
> Just being held accountable
> Some arbitrary model of how you should be.
Virtually all men have a resistance to ‘emotions.’ Women tell us we have it wrong... they often tell us how to get it right. We try, and it still doesn’t work. Both women and men assume it’s the man. It’s not. It’s the emotional training men received.
As men, our mothers raised us. Our emotional education continued with our teachers, then moved on to our girlfriends. All this occurring in a culture that for hundreds of years had mothers home raising the kids, as the fathers were at work and not around to model masculine emotions.
We all grew to assume that men’s emotions are the same as women’s. Sure, we are more alike than different. Yet the ways we are dissimilar significantly influence a relationship. Men can only learn genuine masculine emotional presence from other men. When he does, women are naturally attracted to him. Relationships shift from a constant struggle to a dance of romance.
Relationships that work
Discovering how to develop a fulfilling relationship involves activating skills buried within you. Relating to a woman in a way that naturally draws both of you closer, in ways that are fun and easy will become natural.
Exchanging of all those ‘techniques’ that tell you how to behave for the skill of being with another person will transform your life. You will have a skill set few men possess and a relationship you thought unattainable.
What ESC Does
We guide as you remove your limitations.
Then assist you in creating deep and sustainable wins.
Our work is built on years of teaching men how to create brotherhood.
We help you release, learn, heal, and then create through:
> Proven practices and homework
> Short cuts to success
> Going beyond learning a new explanation to embodying new way of being
You can learn from books, from your mistakes, from others who don’t have a life – or you can learn from men who for decades did whatever they needed to succeed as their own man. These men made every imaginable mistake.
Frustrated with the standard approach, they built a program that encourages men to identify and create the life they want, not mimic society. They constructed a set of principles and skills that allow a man to sculpture his own remarkable life. Yes, it will take work. Our Emotional Superman Coaching approach is not a quick fix approach--deep change takes deep work.
?ESC’s and our première online course, Emotional Superman, are built on a distilled system that moves men through change quickly. We discovered from working with over a thousand men that there is a powerful way to carve out the change you want. If we are to get you to a place where you don’t need us, we need you to build a solid foundation. No one else is using this system to help men shift their relationships or create a life that works.
Worried about bills rather than excited about work?
You don’t need to do it alone. Using qualified assistance takes courage.
Letting others ‘give you advice’ has its limitations. Given a suggestion that solves your current dilemma may sound good, but it rarely addresses the underlying issue.
Do what successful men do; admit to what they don’t know and find the support they need. You want a life and relationships that give you energy—find others who are out in front creating their own success.
Give up the models that don’t work. Try on ones that might. Keep what works.
Did a partner ever say that to you?
A struggling relationship is a catalyst for many men. We want to succeed even to the point of attempting to relate emotionally the way our partners suggest. The benefits of just learning to be sensitive is short lived. Either we sabotage the relationship or we give up it because it doesn’t work for us.
After trying what feels like all our options, we look for something out of the box. We look at asking men who walked this road ahead of us.
Using the Emotional Superman Coaching program you discover new orientations and skills that shift from repelling what you want to attracting what you want. You start thriving at work and home. Men respect you. Women are attracted to you.
Your dates or your partner now have something to be attracted to—they have you. Your deeper communications leads to intimacy that naturally brings the best sex you ever had.
Shift your foundation
Who you are as a man determines how you succeed in business, relationships, and life; when change occurs on this deep level all else shifts.
There are amazing books, programs, and teachers that will teach you powerful techniques. We use many of them for others and ourselves. Yet when our foundation as a man is weak, the impact of these offerings was weak. Every week we see in our groups when a man shifts into standing up as his own man, the need for much of the other work magically disappears.
In my clinic years ago, I realized that the cause of the problem rarely existed where the symptom manifested. If we were to help the client heal, we had to address the underlying cause(s).
We don’t realize that much of our angst comes from the stress and trauma of our childhood and cultural imprinting. These two restraints are address in your Emotional Superman Coaching.
Few boys or men had a mentor to guide him.
We break the old model of being a man. We start with the assumption that you aren’t--bad, broken, or doomed. It’s just you didn’t get the models or teachings that would guide you to succeed as your own man.
Our programs and courses come from thousands of hours of working with all kinds of men in numerous situations. Each man is unique with unique needs, we are able to adapt our principles and skills to so each man can win.
We stepped out of the outmoded model of masculinity to create a success model. Being a man is not a pathology. Our approach is not the latest pop psychology or self-help theory. Nor is it some dead academic hypothesis of what a man should be. Our programs come from field-testing that began with ourselves.
The Emotional Superman Coaching is not mothering. We love our mothers, but they aren’t men. As men we often need a masculine push, then the compassion of a sincere honoring for the risk we took.
We outgrow a need for mothering when we leave home.
Neither do we believe in the boot-camp approach to men’s work. Deprivation and confrontation can work and has a place. We found those changes can be short lived. For some men, this approach can create more stress and trauma than releases.
It’s not about beating it out of you. It’s about assisting you to evoke out your greatness. We know it’s in you. The art of our work is how to help you most effectively manifest it.
Develop emotional strength
It’s not an oxymoron. As men, we can be strong, vulnerable and emotional.
After a lifetime of being out of emotional shape, it does take some work and possibly a little sweat to get into shape. Yet after a while, like workouts your emotional interaction start being fun. You realize how to roll with the punches and how to get up when knocked down.
You learn that getting slammed around can be just part of playing full out. The joy of playing full out exceeds the concern about any possible injuries. Injury prevention, recovery, and resiliency naturally increase as you increase your emotional strength.
When I choose to work with someone, I want to know more about the man. Sure, I want to learn about his training, but what I really want to learn is what kind of man is he.
I started out for a good reason feeling I was not a man.
In my twenties I discovered the reason school was such a struggle was because I had dyslexia. Then I discovered the reason social interactions were so challenging was due to Asperger’s Syndrome. I quickly discovered I also had tenacity.
I went on a quest to heal these conditions. As they got better, I was left with still not being able to connect emotionally with others. I took a big breath and dove into starting then leading men’s groups.
I realized I was not alone in this challenge. Virtually all the men I met struggled with emotional connection. Together we created a new model of men’s groups, Masculine Emotional Intelligence, and coaching-mentoring.
I was able to weave in decades of postgraduate study of leading edge change work into our work with men. All this lead to the book -- Grow Up: A Man's Guide to Masculine Emotional Intelligence, the documentary film about our work – About Men, the TEDx talk, a nonprofit – Men Corps and a training company – Free to Win.
From thousands of collective hours with over a thousand men, we created a unique model that brings deep satisfaction to me. Witnessing men transform a doomed life into a life of passion warms my soul. There is nothing more satisfying than being a part of that change.
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From surviving to winning...
"I have been married for 25 years and there were times I thought there was no way this relationship would survive. Not only has it survived it’s the best it has ever been."
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"Owen’s gift is his ability to take a man deep. He took me to a place where I externally expressed what had been up to that point an inward struggle. I also witnessed Owen hold space for others who similarly emerged as new men. Owen is a phenomenally talented leader of men and I would recommend him to all the men in my life.
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Yes, we have coach women, here what one has to say...
"Although Owen immediately resonated with me, I had no idea the profound effect he would have on my life.
Within three sessions, he gave me something I could not have anticipated…. renewed passion, love, and connection to my husband of ten years. I feel he not only coached me, but through his masterful guidance of the primal and culturally learned dance between the masculine/feminine balance in the home, his teachings literally ignited my husband into waking up and opening to his own power and purpose.
Somewhere along the way we fell asleep in this marriage, but suddenly we find ourselves once again wide awake. Our communication, our sex life, our individuality as well has our togetherness have all deepened into something more beautiful than perhaps we’ve ever had.
My husband and I are both filled with gratitude and humbled by the expertise of Owen Marcus."
Build on what you’ve created… use Emotional Superman Coaching to do more than coach you. Have it be your guide into creating that great life you dreamt of having. That life where you wake up excited about what you are doing that day. That life where you come home to true friends and a partner or women you are dating that get you.
Walk into a room feeling as if you belong.
Know that whatever happens, you will be OK. Seek out experiences that stretch you because it’s fun.
Invest in your most precious investment—your life as your own man. Join other men who benefited from Emotional Superman Coaching.
Be free to win… start winning today.
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The ancient Greeks developed mentoring; we upgraded it to give men what is missing.
P.S. We developed the program we wished we had and the program for men who never had the mentors they needed. Use us.. we take great joy in seeing you succeed in ways you thought impossible.
To lower your risk, we offer a full guarantee: if you keep your part of the deal—you show up for your sessions, and you are not satisfied that what we deliver, we will refund your first month.