I know when I started dating nothing would scare me more than a woman “losing it.” If she started crying, yelling or getting mad I was in trouble. I was like a deer in the headlights – I froze. Then I would try all the strategies – I would deny, attempt to suppress, may be even argue. My default was to “discuss.” I wanted to be the sensitive man and do the right thing. It didn’t work.
Here are some of my thoughts on a man relating to a woman’s emotions.