What are the options for up leveling my emotional connections?
The quickest way to create what you want is to work with men who are working on the same issues.
For more than 20 years, I’ve started and lead men’s groups that created huge shifts in men’s lives.
Out of thousands of hours of working with men, I developed a concentrated mentoring (coaching) program for men who don’t want to start a group.
It’s a proven path to developing skills for expressing emotions that were never taught.
Why should I trust you?
We all started out trying to dig ourselves out of our holes alone, then when we were willing to risk and asked for help our progress accelerated. Opening up for any man can feel risky, we know.
I started way behind the emotional curve because of Asperger’s and being shy. I did whatever I needed to succeed in relationships. I tried many approaches, the ones that work I integrated into my own skillset and then began to teach them to the men I work with.
I came to see that every man can connect. We just need to be given the right tools.
It’s an honor for me to help men do that.
Where does the Emotional Superman Mentoring (ESM) go beyond a coaching program?
We build on what a good coaching program delivers—then we add what years of working in men’s groups, men’s trainings, and assorted therapies taught us.
For example, we learned that it’s not enough for your head to know. Your body and actions need to be aligned with what your head knows.
We don’t tell you what to do, we help draw out of your latent skills—the ones you were never encouraged to develop.
Couldn’t I get much of this from books, websites, and trainings?
Much of the concepts are in books, including our book, Grow Up: A Man’s Guide to Masculine Emotional Intelligence. We support men in doing it themselves.
Often men come to us at their wits end. Their partner gave them an ultimatum or they just can’t figure out what is missing and are tired of looking.
For many of the men we work with, something has to change – and quick.
We created a solution for those men. ESM is for the man who wants the fast track.
Who benefits from EMS?
- Men who want to develop their first relationship.
- Men in relationships that are crashing and burning
- Men who want to settle down to create their dream relationship.
- Men who want to deepen and grow a relationship.