This Huffington Post article about why young man are afraid to marry speaks about how men want to avoid the financial risks of divorce.
The issue is not so much marriage or divorce – it is communication. In spite of all our technology and our communication skills we aren’t hearing each other. This is made worse by the growing malaise of fear about our future. So many of us are in emotional and literal survival. From that place it is difficult to relax and trust another. Often all you want to do is protect yourself and your processions.