What is the definition of hell? Working with your spouse when it’s not working. That’s my opening line of my post for Michael Van Osh’s blog Thinktank: Men. Michael asked that I write a post on how to succeed working with your spouse because he knew I work with many men who have their wife [...]
What guy doesn’t want to get more attention, affection or sex? Can you remember when the lust between the two of you could burn down the room? Just one word or look and you’d be tearing off each others’ clothes. Then one day you realize those experiences are distant memories. You still love her. You [...]
I asked Kelly Notaras an expert about women and sex questions many man have concerning women. Her answers to these questions will not only give you valuable insights into women, but also offer you a well informed prospective on men. What is a “female orgasm”? Well, anytime you’re talking about “an” orgasm you’re likely talking [...]
This Huffington Post article about why young man are afraid to marry speaks about how men want to avoid the financial risks of divorce. The issue is not so much marriage or divorce – it is communication. In spite of all our technology and our communication skills we aren’t hearing each other. This is made [...]
How do you know if you need a men’s group? Answer this question: Who do you call when you’re in trouble? This question comes from my friend Ken Solin, who has been leading men’s groups in the Marin County area for 20 years. Ken, a former business owner and motorcycle rider, is no touchy-feely “New [...]
As men and women, we can struggle with relationships. Emily V. Gordon wrote an excellent post on Did You Know, Deep Down, That You’d Get Divorced One Day? She lays out some good questions to ask about marriage. I would add for any relationship, even a business relationship. Here are my takeaways. Take time by [...]
There is the coward’s way, coming from denial and anger, or there is the courageous way of facing your pain and truth. Either way will be painful. The second way, dealing with it directly will be tougher in the short run. The first way of denial and projection may get you out of the marriage, [...]
Are you married? Well, according to a new study you should be; “Men tend to behave better when they’re married – both because marriage likely helps improve their behavior, and nicer men are more likely to be married in the first place…” With this, and the fact that married men live longer, reason would tell [...]
