We are taught to not speak what we are feeling, or say what we really want, to be indirect so we don’t risk hurting someone or ourselves. We go around in a trance of compliancy speaking half truths.In our society today,  it’s easier to speak about what you won’t want or who you aren’t. When’s [...]

As men we are often at best confused by a woman’s emotions. We love their passion, yet their illogical emotional sends us spinning. You can discover how not to resist a woman’s emotions – you can actually develop skills that were never taught and to learn dance with their powerful emotions. Let us know how [...]

I remember, as a young teenager, hanging out with my friends and talking about what we would do with a particular young teenage girl. We had no idea what we were talking about, but that was irrelevant. We were bonding, bragging and mostly B-S-ing. The more graphic you could be, the better. It was all [...]

Guys, if you want to attract more women, increase your Masculine Emotional Intelligence™ (MEI). Get smart. Women like smart men. They love men who are emotionally smart in a masculine way. A man blows up at a woman over his tools being out of place = childish and unsexy. A man says, “Can you please [...]

Men are often accused of not being emotional, not being empathetic. It’s an unfair accusation. We do feel. We do care. Sadly, many of us just don’t know how to express it. For most men, any training in Masculine Emotional Intelligence™ was non-existent. We had no male role models, no male teachers showing us how [...]

For as long as I’ve been in men’s groups, women have been asking me what happens in a men’s group. Women ask—sometimes insisted—that we “let” them come to a group meeting. Unless they were part of a women’s group we were working with, or a partner of a member and he wants her to come, [...]

This is a guest post by Blair Glaser – she moved me. Enjoy. It is that time of year when, as a woman born into the Jewish faith, I am reminded of the need to renew and atone. I don’t really believe in sins and celestial forgiveness, but I do believe in the calling to [...]

Get Down on Your Kids Level Recently I was interviewed by Chris Blair of Remarkable Fathers about how, as men, we can literally get down on the level of our kids so they can experience our love on their level. I gave him examples of how men’s groups had transformed men’s relationships with their kids. [...]