This is a continuation of part one. How do you get over the biology and into the heart of things? Next time you’re in a heated conversation with your mate, and your head gets in the middle of the chaos, and you feel like you’re trying to pull apart fighting kids, remember this:  you and [...]

Accessing your full power lies in utilizing what you avoid. This power lies behind the stress and trauma. Your stress and trauma freezes you, preventing you from being that man you want to be. Jonathan Field’s new book, Uncertainty: Turning Fear and Doubt Into Fuel for Brilliance speaks about this place we protect. You know, [...]

You don’t believe me? I have science backing me up. The Huffington Post’s article by Peggy Drexler explains how scientists discovered that men are hardwired to be more emotionally sensitive than women. University of Pennsylvania neuroscientist Dr. Ruben Gur says that the same way men and women have different bodies, they have different brains — [...]

We do not honor other men. Not nearly enough. You have to be a sports star, a business mogul, or a war hero to be celebrated in our culture. What about the “little things,” though, that are so important? When was the last time you honored a man? When have you sought out a man [...]

I recently had a conversation with Marianne Else on Facebook about what men birth. She pointed out that, “the incubation period [for men] sometimes is measured in years and years…. the man is more future-oriented.” [note: I believe women also birth ideas.] This ability to birth is particularly seen with entrepreneurs—men and women—where the fertilization [...]

We love a woman’s beauty – all her beauty. Guys we think once we said it a few times, she’s gotten it, and we can move on. I can tell you, I learned the hard way, it’s not that way. Even though WE know and feel she’s beautiful, some part of her needs to hear [...]

When was the last time you told a male friend, “I love you“? When was the last time you held a man who was crying? When was the last time you just sat there and listened to a man, without giving advice? If you are like most men, it has been a while since you [...]

Lee Ielpi, a retired New York City Firefighter, shares his experience of 911 in this NPR story about the September 11th Families’ Association’s Tribute WTC Visitors Center. As you listen to Lee speak, you hear in his voice the love he has for his work, his city, and his fellow firefighters. Lee’s voice softens when [...]